Bio

Evan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specializing in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has over 3 million downloads and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.

Over two decades, Evan has watched the rise of dating apps and texting, seen thousands of influencers offering advice, and realized something powerful: busy women don’t need more information; they need more love. More attention. More confidence. More support. If you’re exhausted by taking care of your man, your kids, your clients, and your parents, Evan Marc Katz shows you how to choose a partner who takes care of YOU.

Now happily married for 16 years, Evan believes you can find love, no matter where you live, how old you are, or how challenging your previous relationships - and he has the results to prove it. Over 13,000 women have graduated from Love U, Evan’s coaching program and community for women. By providing hands-on support, structure and accountability, Evan teaches women to become the CEO of their love lives and attract high-value, commitment-oriented partners.

Summary

In this conversation, Evan Mark Katz, a renowned dating coach, shares insights on the complexities of dating, especially for successful women. He discusses the importance of compatibility over chemistry, the challenges posed by online dating, and the dynamics of relationships for older women. Katz emphasizes the need for women to focus on how they feel in relationships and the significance of communication and acceptance of flaws. He also touches on the role of love languages and offers resources for those seeking lasting love.

Takeaways

Evan Mark Katz is a dating coach specializing in helping successful women find love.
Busy women need more support and confidence rather than just information.
Online dating is a necessary tool despite its flaws, as 50% of marriages start online.
The dating pool for successful women is often limited, making it challenging to find compatible partners.
Successful women often face unique challenges in dating due to societal expectations and their own achievements.
Compatibility is more important than chemistry in a relationship.
Good qualities in partners often come with bad qualities, and it's essential to accept them.
Women should focus on how they feel in relationships rather than just the partner's attributes.
Communication is key to a lasting relationship, but it's one of many important factors.
Understanding love languages can enhance relationship dynamics.

Sound Bites

"The dating pool of 5% of men."
"Pay attention to how he treats you."
"You should never go to bed angry."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Evan Mark Katz
01:19 The Role of a Dating Coach
02:59 The Journey to Finding Love
05:54 The Challenges of Online Dating
11:18 Dating Dynamics for Older Women
14:15 The Asymmetry in Dating
15:54 Challenges for Successful Women
18:48 Power Couples and Their Dynamics
22:00 The Importance of Compatibility
25:23 Accepting Flaws in Relationships
28:54 The Role of Communication
32:13 Key Qualities for Lasting Relationships
35:42 Understanding Love Languages
37:36 Conclusion and Resources